Saturday, September 12, 2026

How to Be a Great Cruise Passenger (And Avoid Common Mistakes)


If you've taken more than a few cruises, you've probably encountered that passenger.

Maybe they're blasting music from a Bluetooth speaker by the pool. Maybe they're yelling at crew members because their drink took an extra two minutes to arrive. Or perhaps they're cutting in line at the buffet as if no one else has been waiting.

Most cruisers have their own definition of a "bad cruiser." For us, it's someone whose behavior directly affects the enjoyment of other guests.

Cruising is one of the few vacations where thousands of people share the same restaurants, pools, theaters, elevators, and public spaces. A little courtesy goes a long way.


One of the best things about cruising is that everyone enjoys the vacation differently.

Some guests are celebrating anniversaries. Others are making memories with their children. Some want to dance until midnight, while others simply want a quiet place to read a book by the pool.

There isn't one "right" way to cruise—but there is a right way to treat the people around you.

Be Respectful of noise. Not everyone wants to listen to your music. Bluetooth speakers have become one of the biggest complaints on cruises. Whether you're at the pool, on your balcony, or in a public area, remember that everyone nearby has different tastes and may simply want to enjoy the sounds of the ocean. The same goes for loud conversations late at night in cabin hallways or on balconies.

Cruise ships serve thousands of guests every day. There will be lines. Elevators will be busy. Your pizza might take a few extra minutes. Being patient makes the experience better for everyone including yourself.

Cruise lines don't create rules to ruin your vacation. Many policies exist because previous passengers abused the system. Whether it's sharing drink packages, smoking in non-smoking areas, bringing prohibited items onboard, or ignoring safety instructions, breaking the rules often affects other guests as much as the cruise line. When everyone follows the rules, everyone enjoys a smoother vacation.

Treat crew members with kindness. This is one of the most important ones. Cruise ship employees work incredibly long hours, often spending months away from their families. They work hard to make your vacation special.

If something is forgotten or takes a little longer than expected, politely bringing it to their attention is far more effective than raising your voice. We've met some amazing crew members over the years, and many of our favorite cruise memories came simply from taking the time to talk with them. A smile, a "please," and a "thank you" cost nothing but can mean a great deal.


Respecting other guests. Simple acts of courtesy make a huge difference. Avoid cutting in line. Don't save rows of seats long before a show begins. Keep your language appropriate in family areas. If you're traveling with children, help them understand that other guests are trying to enjoy their vacation too. Small acts of kindness create a better atmosphere for everyone onboard.

Fortunately, being a great cruise passenger isn't difficult. Learn before you sail. Every cruise line has its own policies and expectations. Spend a little time reading your cruise line's rules and familiarizing yourself with common cruise etiquette. You'll avoid surprises and help make the voyage more enjoyable for everyone.

If you're visiting international ports, take a few minutes to learn about local customs and laws as well. For example, some Caribbean countries prohibit civilians from wearing camouflage clothing ashore.

Remember you are a guest. Yes, you've paid for your vacation. But you're also a guest on someone else's ship and in someone else's country. Treat the ship, the crew, your fellow passengers, and the destinations you visit with respect.

Get to know the crew. One of the unexpected joys of cruising is meeting people from around the world. Many crew members love sharing stories about their home countries, families, and life at sea. Some of our favorite conversations have been with the people who work onboard. Those connections often become some of the most memorable parts of the cruise.

Use good manners. It sounds simple because it is. Say "please." Say "thank you." Hold the elevator for someone who's running. Offer a smile. and be patient. These small gestures don't cost anything, but they help create the friendly atmosphere that makes cruising so special.

Cruising is one of the best vacations you can take because it brings together people from all over the world. The overwhelming majority of passengers are friendly, respectful, and simply looking to have a wonderful vacation. If we all remember that we're sharing the ship with a few thousand of our newest neighbors, we'll all go home with better memories and maybe even a few new friends.

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